Today is Tuesday, so this post is on positive personal impact.
When I was in Chicago last week, I picked up a copy of Redeye – a supplement to the Chicago Tribune. It contained an interest article on manners in the workplace. As you know, manners and etiquette — along with a strong personal brand and presentation of self – are keys to building positive personal impact.
The article began, “The line between what is acceptable and unacceptable is blurring.” I agree. When I first joined the working world, things were pretty simple. Men wore suits and ties. Women wore suits or dresses. Cell phones and the internet had not yet been invented.
Today, it’s different. The rules are not hard and fast anymore. “Business casual attire” means different things to different people. People interrupt face to face conversations to answer cell phone. Many communicate with people in the next office via e mail or im.
I always tell me coaching clients to remember one thing about etiquette – do whatever it takes to make the people around you comfortable, and you’ll be OK.
The Redeye article listed several things that people in their newsroom find annoying. If I were you, I’d avoid these things.
- Singing, humming and whistling while you listen to your iPod.
- Bouncing your legs constantly, or tapping you feet against a chair leg or the floor.
- Interrupting others’ conversations or work.
- Speaking loudly on a cell phone.
- Arguing with your spouse or significant other at work.
- Eating someone else’s food that is in the office refrigerator.
- Cluttering the office refrigerator with your food containers.
- Taking more than one, when offered a cookie or other treat.
- Bad breath.
- Coughing and sneezing without covering your mouth.
- Coming to work when you are sick and/or contagious.
- Eavesdropping on other people’s conversations, and worse yet, commenting on them afterwards.
- Entering others’ work space without being invited.
- Not taking the responsibility to refill the copy paper, printer ink of water cooler.
- Pointing out others’ shortcomings – especially when you don’t acknowledge your own.
- Complaining without offering solutions.
All of these are certainly things to avoid if you want to build positive personal impact. However, be very aware of the last one – complaining without offering solutions. No one likes a whiner.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t complain about bad situations. However, when you do, offer a constructive suggestion for how to fix it. If you do this, you’ll become known as a positive problem solver, not a negative whiner.
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