Comments on: Successful People Accentuate the Positive http://www.budbilanich.com/competence/successful-people-accentuate-the-positive/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:32:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Bud http://www.budbilanich.com/competence/successful-people-accentuate-the-positive/comment-page-1/#comment-2501 Bud Mon, 17 May 2010 15:39:43 +0000 http://www.budbilanich.com/?p=1271#comment-2501 You're right Donna: A small paradigm shift can mean everything. BB You’re right Donna:
A small paradigm shift can mean everything.
BB

]]> By: Donna Brown http://www.budbilanich.com/competence/successful-people-accentuate-the-positive/comment-page-1/#comment-631 Donna Brown Mon, 19 Oct 2009 12:48:13 +0000 http://www.budbilanich.com/?p=1271#comment-631 Four days ago I was thinking about a specific goal that I had in mind and then the thought came to me "What if I fail?" I knew that by focusing on the negative, it would bring negative results so I decided instead to think about the positive so I changed it to "What if I succeed?" I started by using the same inflection that I used when I said what if I fail. I sounded like I was afraid of success. Then I laughed and said it again and instead said enthusiastically, "What if I DO succeed? The truly amazing part was that after I said that, I started getting the answers that I knew would lead to success in this specific goal. Things that I wasn't thinking about when I was asking myself 'What if i fail.'What a paradigm! Four days ago I was thinking about a specific goal that I had in mind and then the thought came to me “What if I fail?” I knew that by focusing on the negative, it would bring negative results so I decided instead to think about the positive so I changed it to “What if I succeed?” I started by using the same inflection that I used when I said what if I fail. I sounded like I was afraid of success. Then I laughed and said it again and instead said enthusiastically, “What if I DO succeed? The truly amazing part was that after I said that, I started getting the answers that I knew would lead to success in this specific goal. Things that I wasn’t thinking about when I was asking myself ‘What if i fail.’What a paradigm!

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